It has been a good two weeks since my last time at the keyboard, typing away about my adventures here in the south. I have been reminding myself that life is meant to be lived first and written about second (or perhaps writing is somewhere farther along down on the list of "things to do" but regardless... now is the right time.)
I have been walking. A lot. It is the best (and not to mention cheapest and most readily available) method for getting to know the city. Buenos Aires (BsAs) and I have gone through moments of delight, fear, bliss, challenges and peace just as any relationship does. I am growing to appreciate how each calle has something to offer and the not so enjoyable details of my walk (see future note on dog feces and potholes) are now just part of the journey.
Graffiti gently reminding the passerby |
Walking has become a form of mediatation for me. Starting in one place with a general goal of where I would like to end up, while remaining open to the ideas the universe has in store for me. One foot in front of the other, watch your step, breathe, and be present. Originally I held tightly onto my map, focusing more energy on street signs than my surroundings. Now I am comfortable and confident enough to get lost, or better yet, to find a different route. I take the opportunity to look at the aged buildings, children playing in the street, detailed door designs, and men standing in the frames of old houses that have recently been transformed into a tower of apartments. I am able to notice the little things. Like the trash thrown on the road as if in opposition to the very government that had brought it there and the woman waiting for the bus who really seems to be waiting for a change of circumstance.
Porteños. Sitting on the dock of the bay. |
There are of course "rules of the road" to keep in mind...
1. Unfortunately, many Paseadors de Perros are outnumbered by the K9s at the end of their leash so watch your step and beware of the golden trails too. Enough said.
They appear innocent. |
And sometimes they appear abandoned. |
2. Stoplights mean nothing and cars always have the right away. Anything big and coming at you with full spead ahead holding a man inside who is waving his fist mightily in the air is always welcome to cross the street before I do.
3. BsAs is not a grid designed town. Roads are curvy, turn into other roads without warning and zig zag their way around the barrios depending on the view they feel like having that day. Even the collectivos resemble this attitude as they switch destinations just as I begin to think I have it all figured out.
4. (This was a hard one for me to learn)
There is too much trash to pick up. Coming from a home where trash in the street is rare, I was happy to bend over and pick up an abandoned item and place it in the nearest appropriate location. I even felt it was my duty to do so. Here, trash is just as much a part of the street as the worn down concrete benethe it. And I feel I am meant to leave it that way. Although I will admit at times I still make the lean downwards and sneak a piece of trash to the nearest garbage can.
5. You do not smile at every person that walks by. Another moment of culture shock for me. Not only would my jaw be sore after the hours of roaming around, my constant smile would be viewed as a sign that says "Soy una tourista." I feel more welcomed as a resident of BsAs when I hold my backpack close, keep my steady pace and look others with a gentle smile of the eye when the moment feels right. Not quite as enthusiastic as the non-stop-waving-hand of avalon, but hey, this isn´t avalon.
Interspersed in my time of not thinking at all, thoughts of life, love and the pursuit of happiness trickle into my mind as my body is focused otherwise on the refreshingly monotonous motion of moving my legs in the most natural way possible.
Otherwise stated: I think when I walk.
My inspiration for the day: A very hard worker and a very good walker. Mr ant lifting something between 3 and 50 times his own body weight. (Google is conflicting at times) |
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In addition to walking I have spared some time for other methods of exploration.
Lets give the old "picture is worth a thousand words" approach a try and let them tell the story...
Sat Feb 12
The Recoleta "Hippie" Art Fair |
Where I became mesmorized with these hand made tye-dyed overalls as well as the woman who made them. (I am actually wearing them at this very moment : ) |
Then we made a picnic in the park with the first bottle of wine I have ever bought! The most delicious 4 dollars... |
enjoyed while being spontaneously serenaded by a reggae band. |
Un buen día. |
Feb 13
First unneccesary but delightlful purchase of the day: A crystal ball! At least the future is no longer a mystery... |
and a pretty doll too! Just kidding. Seriously though, who would buy that??? |
After shopping till I dropped I picked myself up again and had a leisurely four hour walk home.
Here is some of what I saw...
Only upon exiting did I realize I was in unappropriate attire for the church. Whoops. |
A cat with the look of death. |
Argentine men posing for my picture of the monument. |
And a door that tempted me to go inside. |
Also... It is official. I am LIVING here! Freshly purchased: Yerba Mate, laundry detergent, and body soap. |
Feb 16th
Today I went on a graffiti tour where we learned the difference between standard graffiti and street art. It was so enjoyable to walk with the intention of appreciating the art-decorated walls of the city. I feel they are passed by all too quickly and often ignored during the rush of city life. |
graffiti |
Yoga --- Body Art Anywhere: Street With anything: Dress and heels With anyone: Two wild werewolves |
Feb 18th
Some beautiful friends and I took advantage of the rainy weekend in BsAs and headed 6 hours south for the beach of Mar del Plata! |
The horizon never looked so sweet. It's the little things like this that don't exist in the city. -via the bus ride south |
Welcome Home toes. |
Then... on the way back to the hostel we ran into a huge free outdoor concert right on the sand! Whoo! |
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Now I have returned back to BsAs and I must admit it was nice to leave the city. By the time sunday came around I was ready to go home, I missed it. Surprised by that feeling, I realized I really do love it here. While I cannot imagine myself ever living in a city like this long-term, I am so blessed to have the opportunity to experience this lifestlye for a limited time.
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Some "golden rules" I have been reminded of thus far...
Love is everywhere. |
Sometimes under a hard exterior, (says the walnut) |
and sometimes soft and sweet. (says the plum) |
Know when it's your time to go and know when it's your time to wait. |
Power of Intention: What you think about, you bring about. (I knew soy milk existed here!) |
Liberty for all. (Yes. That is indeed a miniature Statue of Liberty located here in BsAs) |
Laundry must still be done. |
Make Friends. |
Be brave and dance! If you see something you want (even if it is a gorgeous girl who is far to young for you and you are a kind old man pushing 70 years old with dusty tango moves... ) Go For It! |
Food is Fuel. Treat your body right and eat the rainbow. |
Everything is hilarious. |
And know always, You are loved. SONRIE . |
Wow. this is truly beautiful. I can see all your hard work of compiling this and I am so grateful you did! I want MY friends to read YOUR blog! jaja! Thanks for sharing Ky! :)
ReplyDeleteYou don't realize how much joy you inspire here.
ReplyDeleteOr wait, maybe you do.
Either way, thank you - your observations are invaluable.
-dy
As always, lovely Kyria. So glad you are having a ball over there!
ReplyDeleteKyria,
ReplyDeleteYou are amazing.
I hope you continue to have life-changing adventures!
-Chelsea
Ky!! Que bonitaaa - I love your blog post - what a way to sum up your experiences in such a cathartic and poetic way. thanks for cheering me up on my sick days.
ReplyDeleteHope we continue our adventures soooon!
Mari